Hahaha. There isn't one. I've found that having a steady SL bf is basically a waste of time, and a quick way of ruining a perfectly good friendship, potential real friendship, albeit an online one.
I seem to misunderstand why some of those relationships work so well. I'm sure not all of them have run so smoothly without a glitch here and there. Somehow some just survive. Not sure why.
I have had a few SL relationships. They don't last because of one reason or another. It's ok though, it is meant to be that way. I have found, the best way to get over a failed SLR is to be angry. That isn't hard to do. No matter who is doing the breaking up(and it's USUALLY me, although yes, this butterfly has been dumped a couple of times, and yes, there is that real hurt that is felt), or why, there is that feeling of either failure or rejection. Neither one is easy to deal with, unless you are a unforgiving, unfeeling asshole(and I've met a couple of those too). It must suck to not have feelings, but that's a whole other blog.
I think it's quite funny that my SL relationships are followed so closely by a select few. Does it feel good to watch me "fail"? It's only a perception, because, the feeling of failure only lasts a short time. SL relationships are fleeting.
I'm back up on my feet again in no time, and the more time I spend on SL, the more I appreciate that I'm once again, single. Sorry to disappoint you, those who do not like me, I get back up as quickly as I've been knocked down. Fortunately, there are many, many fish in the sea that is SL. I learn from those I've spent time with. Very few do I remain friends with(I won't mention those), and only after a period of disliking them, because that is how I roll. I don't regret most of my liasons, because they all have taught me something, as I move forward in SL.
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